Sue & Rob and their family
Rob was diagnosed with multiple myeloma, a blood cancer affecting white blood cells, in June 2017 and was referred to the Rennie Grove hospice at home service shortly after. Following a period of remission then an aggressive relapse, Rob died peacefully at home in February 2018. Sue, Rob’s wife, explains how the Rennie Grove overnight team made that possible.
“I remember lying down near Rob (he was in a hospital bed in our room with our bed pushed up against the wall so I could still be near him) and putting on The Sound of Music for a bit of comfort. Suddenly Rob was violently sick. It was around 10:45pm. My brother and sister-in-law were staying and they came in to help me clear up and settle Rob again. But he started to get angry. None of us had ever seen him like this. We couldn’t hear what he was saying and he was so agitated. Neither my brother nor I could reach him. I felt totally hopeless, helpless and distraught.”
“From unbearable anxiety, anger, distress and agitation - they helped us all feel at peace again. They restored my confidence; they explained what I should expect next and they made an awful, traumatic situation bearable. I was able to wrap my arms round Rob again and know he was at peace now."
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